Sunday, November 2, 2008

MISSION ACCOMPLISHED

Although our official release date doesn't come until the 17th of October, the Temple Department gave us a wonderful farewell luncheon yesterday. It was so nice, a special event to top off our three years of serving in the Temple Department, a dream come true. Donny and Christi surprised us by showing up to take part in the celebration. It was so neat to have them there. We were so thankful for their support. It was difficult saying good bye to all the great people we have met and served with. We have learned so much and are so thankful for the safety we have had. Rarely does a day go by that there aren't several accidents on the freeway and we have had some really close calls. It is not easy getting up at 5:00am and commuting in the snow and rain. Then walking from the Conference Center to the Church Office Building. It is a breeze and beautiful in the spring, but winter is another story, but we would not trade it for the world.


These two pictures of us are with our companion couple. Joyce and Chris Layton, what a wonderful couple to serve with and spend three years with, in close quarters.


Some dear friends we have met and served with


And with an angel to lend her support and a big thank you to all of you for your support.

Since our official release date is the 17th we have decided to have an Open House that evening. We have never really retired, we went from running the business and working in the Fresno Temple to serving a three year mission, so now we are going to celebrate with our neighbors in Stone Hollow and some from the ward.


I could never begin to tell you how much this mission has meant to us, so I guess I won't even try. I know we were prepared for this for a long time. I know that the Fresno Temple was a big part of that. My gratitude is just so overwhelming sometimes. It will be exciting to see what happens from here. We still have a two year mission in our future, I am just sure. It will be a little while before we do that, but we are excited and eager for the opportunity. We love you all, thank you for your encouragement. Time to take a little time for ourselves.
Well, if you can call going to the temple more often, doing our genealogy and digitizing our journals, working on our pictures, home and visiting teaching, serving in our ward, working out at the fitness center, serving at the Humanitarian Center, etc. as taking some time. You know what I mean, you all have full lives. We send our love to one and all.

Thursday, October 30, 2008

I Just Love Fall




We are having a long beautiful fall in Utah this year. Not like the falls of recent years. It has been incredible. I have been inspired by our daughter, Lisa's blog showing her fall decor and by Christi, our other daughter, who came to help us decorate some for our "retirement" get together. We have taken a couple day trips to experience the wonders of nature in the fall outdoors. A trip over the Mt. Nebo loop and a drive up to Mutual Dell for a picnic lunch, both trips with Michael's brother and his wife. Eldon and Kay, very pleasant "traveling companions" and just good company.


Eldon and Lois, it was a little windy in places





The wall hanging that I made from leaves I collected on the Mt. Nebo loop


Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Perspective

'Never borrow from the future. If you worry about what may happen tomorrow and it doesn't happen, you have worried in vain. Even if it does happen, you have to worry twice.'
1. Pray
2. Go to bed on time.
3. Get up on time so you can start the day unrushed.
4. Say NO to projects that won't fit into your time schedule, or that will compromise your mental health.
5. Delegate tasks to capable others.
6. Simplify and unclutter your life.
7. Less is more. (Although one is often not enough, two are often too many.)
8. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places.
9. Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and difficult projects over time;
don't lump the hard things all together.
10. Take one day at a time.
11. Separate worries from concerns. If a situation is a concern, find out what
God would have you do and let go of the anxiety. If you can't do anything about a situation, forget it.
12. Live within your budget; don't use credit cards for ordinary purchases.
13. Have backups; an extra car key in your wallet, an extra house key buried in the garden,extra stamps, etc.
14. K.M.S. (Keep Mouth Shut). This single piece of advice can prevent an enormous amount of trouble.
15. Do something for the Kid in You everyday.
16. Get enough rest.
17. Eat right.
18. Get organized so everything has its place.
19. Listen to a tape while driving that can help improve your quality of life.
20. Write down thoughts and inspirations.
21. Every day, find time to be alone.
22. Having problems? Talk to God on the spot. Try to nip small problems in the bud.
Don't wait until it's time to go to bed to try and pray.
23. Make friends with spiritual people.
24. Keep a folder of favorite spiritual thoughts on hand.
25. Remember that the shortest bridge between despair and hope is often a good 'Thank you Heavenly Father.'
26. Laugh.
27. Laugh some more!
28. Take your work seriously, but not yourself at all.
29. Develop a forgiving attitude (most people are doing the best they can).
30. Be kind to unkind people (they probably need it the most).
31. Sit on your ego.
32. Talk less; listen more.
33. Slow down.
34. Remind yourself that you are not the general manager of the universe.
35. Every night before bed, think of one thing you're grateful for that you've never been grateful for before.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Labor Day Snow

Labor Day was early this year, but that didn't make any difference to the weather around here. It was an interesting day. Warm and a little windy. Clouds rolled in over the mountains and Mt. Timpanogos disappeared, then when it reappeared this is what it looked like. Yes, snow September the first.

Friday, August 8, 2008

Tomatoes, Bread & Other Memories


Have you ever noticed how sometimes the most random things just come into your mind? Don't ask me why tomatoes and Bread popped in this morning. I guess it is because I was making a bacon, tomato sandwich with whole wheat bread. Anyway I was remembering a few years back (about 1953 or so) when we were in a grocery store. My dad said something like this. "I'm telling you, someday we will be paying a whole dollar for a loaf of bread, if prices keep rising like this". The loaf of bread that I was making my sandwich with today cost over $5.00, my dad would not believe it. Now about the tomato. I remember a dear friend I were talking about how much we loved tomatoes, she said they were getting so expensive that is why she started growing them (this also was many years ag0) I think they were 39 cents a pound. I told her I didn't care if I had to pay $1.00 a piece for them I would still buy them. The other day when I went to get some tomatoes they were $2.39 a pound. (they were from California, the best) I picked out two because I just had to have them. (ours are not doing well this year) The bill was 2.39, just exactly a pound. Did I say I would still buy a tomato even if I had to pay a dollar for it? Yep, I did.

A few other things I remember hearing around 1955.

I’ll tell you one thing, if things keep going the way they are, it’s going to be impossible to buy a week’s groceries for $20.00.”

“Have you seen the new cars coming out next year? It won’t be long before $2, 000.00 will only buy a used one.”

“If cigarettes keep going up in price, I’m going to quit. A quarter a pack is ridiculous.

“Did you hear the post office is thinking about charging a dime just to mail a letter?”

“If they raise the minimum wage to $1.00, nobody will be able to hire outside help at the store.”

“When I first started driving, who would have thought gas would someday cost 29 cents a gallon. Guess we’d be better off leaving the car in the garage.”

“I read the other day where some scientist thinks it’s possible to put a man on the moon by the end of the century. They even have some fellows they call astronauts preparing for it down in Texas .”

“Did you see where some baseball player just signed a contract for $75,000 a year just to play ball? It wouldn’t surprise me if someday they’ll be making more than the President.”

“I never thought I’d see the day all our kitchen appliances would be electric. They are even making electric typewriters now.”

“Marriage doesn’t mean a thing any more, those Hollywood stars seem to be getting divorced at the drop of a hat.” Thank goodness the rest of us are staying together.

“I’m afraid the Volkswagen car is going to open the door to a whole lot of foreign business.”

“Thank goodness I won’t live to see the day when the Government takes half our income in taxes. I sometimes wonder if we are electing the best people to congress.”

“The drive-in restaurant is convenient in nice weather, but I seriously doubt they will ever catch on.”

“There is no sense going on a vacation for a weekend any more, it costs nearly $15.00 a night to stay in a hotel.”

“No one can afford to be sick anymore, at $35.00 a day in the hospital it’s too rich for my blood.”

“If they think I’ll pay 50 cents for a hair cut, forget it.”

On a Friday night "dragging the main" a dollar would buy a hamburger, a coke, french fries and a gallon of gas, with change left over. Those were the days, we went downtown every weekend. Fresno, California late 50's, early 60's

Saturday, July 12, 2008

REMEMBER THE FACTS OF LIFE

The most destructive habit (Worry)
The greatest Joy (Giving)
The greatest loss (Loss of self-respect)
The most satisfying work (Helping others)
The ugliest personality trait (Selfishness)
The most endangered species (Dedicated leaders)
Our greatest natural resource (Our youth)
The greatest 'shot in the arm' (Encouragement)
The greatest problem to overcome (Fear)
The most effective sleeping pill (Peace of mind)
The most crippling failure disease (Excuses)
The most powerful force in life (Love)
The most dangerous pariah (A gossiper)
The world's most incredible computer (The brain)
The worst thing to be without (Hope)
The deadliest weapon (The tongue)
The two most power-filled words (I Can)
The greatest asset (Faith)
The most worthless emotion (Self-pity)
The most beautiful attire (A SMILE)
The most prized possession (Integrity)
The most contagious spirit (Enthusiasm)

Friday, July 4, 2008

Our Country



I woke up early this morning, came to the computer room and opened the blinds. The rays from the sun were coming up behind Mt. Timpanogos and the flags from the scouts were in all the yards in Stone Hollow. I just stood there mesmerized by the scene. I thought about the song that John Wayne made about our country. That has always been one of my favorites. I went on a search for it and added to my playlist, you can listen to it if you go to my playlist and click on it. I thought about the missionary who confirmed me a member of the Church and the fact that he was killed in Viet Nam shortly after he was released from his mission. I thought of Michael who served in the Air Force, Ben Leonard who served in the Marines and Jason who served in the Coast Guard. I thought about our freedom and the price it costs at times. John Wayne talks about why he loves America and what he says speaks for me too. (Click on the John Wayne recording in my playlist). I want to take time to remember our blessings to live in this country, never want to take that for granted. I love America and all those who have done so much for this country. I have seen so much of it, only have three states to go so that I will have been to all 50. Today I hope we all stop and think and appreciate.


Michael Tanner



Ben Leonard

Jason Leonard

Saturday, June 28, 2008

Family Happenings

Another Chapter of Family Happenings

Christi and Donny's wedding
Oakland Temple - 1983



Family Night at the Drive In Movie


(Extended) FHE in the park,
we used to do this once a month



Sierra's blessing day, West Virginia


Statewide Christmas Party, the reason I put this
in Family Happenings is that Steve, Jeff, Donny
and Christi had all done work for us that year.
The rest of them were like family.
(Back Row) - Lois, Michael, Jeff, Marcus, Robert, Larry, Steve, Donny
(Front Row) - Jamie, Christi, Frances

Friday, June 27, 2008

Camping II

Here I am back with camping again. I guess I just have to do it, because we loved it so much and it brings back so many happy memories.
I forgot in my previous camping blog to mention the clock. Yes, a clock was always hung on one of the trees. I didn’t like to wear a watch camping, but I always wanted to know what time it was. In some of the following pictures you will see the ever present “clock on a tree”.
Most of the pictures in this part were taken on a special camping trip to take Lisa and Jared camping one more time before Jared left for his mission. We had a beautiful camp site in Dorabella campground at Shaver Lake in California. Of course we set up everything to make it truly our own. Dorabella is where we camped most while the kids grew up. It was only about 45 minutes from home.
This time we rented a wave runner, played many games, talked a lot, hiked, had lots of great food. There was always a lot of laughter while camping. We often did camp crafts. Seems like everyone has a better attitude at camp. Even the "chores" don't seem so unpleasant. Gathering firewood, hauling water, doing the dishes, sweeping the ground cloths, straightening the tent, cooking, all of those things just were part of the camping experience. Didn't seem like work at all. We went for quiet night walks and could see all the campers preparing for the night or sitting by their campfires. And oh those stars, so many and so bright up there in the mountains. We would often see shooting stars, what a thrill. I still long for it now and then.


Michael - Lisa _ Jared
Notice the "clock on a tree"
Dorabella Campground site

Lois and Michael, this time a woman driver

Biking in Yosemite

Girl's Camp, this time a "clock on a shed"

Me & some of my Laurels


I just had to add this last picture. This was the last year that I went to Girl's Camp in California. These are the cooks, joined by our Priesthood Leader doing our skit, danced to the words. "Get out in that kitchen and rattle those pots and pans" It was great fun and a wonderful topper for all my Girl's Camp years there. Well, maybe not so wonderful when a group of last year laurel's "brigade" attacked us with water hoses almost in the middle of the night and in the kitchen of the lodge. And not so wonderful when we found a rattle snake in camp right by the lodge where we slept. The snake was on a rock right by the head of one of my Laurel's (Krista Gage). It was wonderful that Lisa was at this year of camp with me. Not so wonderful that she was part of the water brigade and we won't mention that I was the one who started it all with a can of whipping cream. Well, maybe just a couple more pictures.

1982

Abt 1995
Frances Ashcraft, Sharon Holden (my niece), Margo Loftus, Lois Tanner, Becky Jackson



As the sun sets and we get snuggled in our beds, the camp cooks will say good night.

Thursday, June 26, 2008

Hobbies, Talents, Collections, Obsessions

Genealogy, that would have to be the first thing to fit into this category. Family History research, Family History trips, teaching Family History, serving in the Family History Center and Beta testing the New FamilySearch have all been a part of life for years. I have seen the sun come up in the morning after a night of working on Family History more than once in my life. Michael calls this one of my talents. I do seem to be blessed in that area of understanding and being inspired where and how to search out what I am looking for.

Cooking, another thing that fits into one of the above categories. This one might just be in the genes. I remember all my life my mother cooking for large groups. Extended family, Church functions, Family Camp, school cafeterias, a hospital, for a fraternity, even at the county fair. Perhaps that is why it has come so easy for me. Working with food for large groups has been a fun thing for me many times. Particularly Girl’s Camp. My most enjoyable years of Girl’s Camp were spent in the kitchen. Lots of fun times, lots of good memories. Of course not all the things I enjoy preparing have to be for large groups we have had some great family meals and small very special, I would call gourmet meals, for Michael and I. Plus lots and lots of experiments, with Internet or magazine recipes. Michael cooks as good as I do, and bakes even better. I left over 200 cookbooks in California. Hobbie, collection or obsession? Maybe talent, who knows?


Girl's Camp Cook

Although I don’t do much anymore, I learned to both crochet and embroider at a fairly young age, while I was still in high school. My grandmother taught me both. I have very few pieces of my own work left, but I do still have the very first doily I crocheted. Also a wall hanging that I made for the grandmother that taught me. I also have over 100 pieces of hand embroidered items. No, I didn’t make them all, haven’t done much of that since I have begun to develop arthritis in my hands. I have purchased most of them, yard sales or eBay mostly. I also seem to just accumulate tablecloths.

All through Junior High School and High School I roller skated. I did both dance and free style. Although I did not go real far with it, I was quite good at it and had wonderful times. Having my appendix taken out in my early teens kind of stopped that for a while. It stopped the competition, but I continued to enjoy skating and still do (if I can stand up long enough on them). For a while in California we had a RS Sisters Exercise group that went skating at the rink once a week.

Skating Days

In college I bowled on a league. I will never forget the time I broke 200 for the first time. I still enjoy bowling , but will probably never see another 200 game. Off and on through the years I have bowled with different groups. My mother and I would bowl one day a week for a while. Sometimes some friends from High School would get together and bowl and then go to lunch. We have bowled with the kids and with the grandkids. Recently a group of us from Stone Hollow went bowling together. The last time I bowled I got a 163, that isn't bad! Michael came in second.
Bowling with the Williams

I do have a small collection of some of my favorite things. Might be unusual for an older woman to collect some of the things that I do. I have a collection of jacks, that is another thing I did quite well in grammar school. I have several sets that I still have and play once in a while. I have played with some of the grandkids who did not even know what they were at first. I also have a collection of marbles. The kids used to bring home ones they had found in the gutters or in the dirt. My cub den boys found out about how much I like marbles and they used to bring me a stray one now and then. I have hundreds and still like to add to them.
Some of my marbles

One of my most enjoyable things to do as a child was to play with paper dolls. I often designed my dolls wardrobes. I would put the doll up to a window or glass door cover them with paper and then design the clothes right on top of them. I could trace around the dolls and make anything my imagination could dream up. I colored them with crayons, colored pencils or painted them with water colors. I would even glue on a sequin, a bead or some other embellishment here and there. I wish I had some of my creations now, but alas those have been gone for years. I do still have a sizable collection of paper dolls and paper doll books that are uncut. I take them out now and then just to look through them and I remember the days of my childhood and what joy they brought. Sometimes I still have the urge to tape a doll to a window and give her a new outfit or two.

In my collection of things are a couple pillow case sized bags of wooden blocks. I love wooden blocks for some reason. I still buy them at yard sales, sometimes only one, sometimes many. I have found a few at places like the DI, I cherish each one. I spell out different words with them, have used them while teaching Relief Society, when I was the Young Women’s President, and as Stake Primary 1st Counselor. I use them here at home to spell out LOVE, PRAY, FAMILY, NOEL, JOY, etc. changing them now and then for the occasion. Some we have made ourselves. Michael has made many of them. I love my blocks.

Some of my blocks

I also collect Christmas cards with pictures of the Nativity, the Holy Family, shepherds, wise men, angels, the baby Jesus, etc. Anything to do with the birth of Christ. It all started because when I finally got rid of the old Christmas cards I just couldn't bring myself to throw these away. I now have hundreds of them and have put them in collage frames and display them during the holidays. They are not as easy to find as they used to be, and I don't get as many as I used to. This collection brings me much peace and joy.

Wow, I thought I would only have a couple things for this blog in this category, but I just can’t stop without mentioning the coupons. COUPONS! I will stop for a coupon anytime anywhere. I even buy coupons LOL. I can hardly stand to buy anything unless I have a coupon for it. This must run in the family. My sister Paula has started a coupon organization that collects coupons and then sends them to military bases all over the world where our military families can use them at the commissary. Any coupons that I get that I don’t use I send on to her organization. For that reason alone I have become even more vigilant about finding coupons.

Now for the obsession, well one of them at least, there are probably others. I would say my biggest obsession is glass. Yes, anything glass. Platters, glasses, bowls, cake stands, punch bowls, candy dishes,etc. I can barely pass a yard sale if I spot something glass. This includes a few Chrystal pieces as well. It really became an obsession while living in California. I mean really. I was pretty good about letting go of a lot of it when we moved, but I do miss every piece that was left behind. I have a pretty good amount of colored Pyrex mixing bowls (mostly, thanks to Christi) and use them all the time. For some reason glass makes me happy.

Some of my glass

I enjoy scrapbooking, journal writing, categorizing, and organizing all my digital pictures. I spend loads of time on the computer, blogging on this site, playing games, doing our family monthly newsletter, family history, emailing, IM, and just surfing around. I guess my computer would have to go in the obsession area too.

No wonder my days seem so busy and full. Full and fulfilling. Call them what you like hobby, talent, collection or obsession they are all a big part of my life. Maybe some of them are a way to just escape for a time. They all bring me joy.

Monday, June 23, 2008

Camping

Camping has been an important part of my life. I love everything about it. I have been told that the first time I really camped out I was about 18 months old. We have taken some grandkids younger than that. I have so many fond memories of all the camping experiences since then. From camping with my family as a child, to Girl Scout camp, to camping with my own family, with friends, and with extended family. After I joined the Church and became a camp cook and a camp counselor, my camping experiences only multiplied, many times over. The camp fires, sleeping outside under the stars or in a tent it is all good. I can smell the campfire as I type this. Climbing rocks, climbing trees (in my younger days), playing games, having “treasure hunts”, renting wave runners. Camping in the mountains and on the beach. Camping by a river or by a stream. Swimming in the lake or floating around in a rubber boat. Water skiing for years. Making S’mores, foil dinners, hot chocolate, Jiffy Pop that always burned, baked potatoes and roasted corn in the coals. And oh those breakfasts, what could be better than eggs and bacon on an open campfire. Baking biscuits in a Dutch oven. Orange crates hanging on the trees for kitchen “cabinets”, an orange crate hung on a tree with a mirror above it for our “medicine” cabinet, and another crate sitting on the ground with a wash basin on top of it for our sink, a roll of paper towels with a stick through the hole and some twine tied to it to hang from the tree or one of the crates. A first aid kit nailed to a tree hanging close by. A hammock strung between two trees. A ground cloth for the door of the tent, sewn out of old Levi’s. A huge bandana quilt the backing made with fabric I got at an auction was what they made ponchos out of during the Viet Nam war and the quilt top was made from many brightly colored bandanas. Another very big ground cloth made from fabric sample books that I got from a store that was getting rid of them. Heavy drapery material samples, carpet samples, etc. It was heavy, but we used it for years to cover the dusty area of the camp site. No wonder I have won some of the ward campouts “Best Camp Site” awards. No trailers or RV’s for us. It was us and nature. Wood gathering hikes, and pine cone gathering were part of the very fun experience. No refrigerators, just ice chests under the trees or in the dome tent “kitchen”. Long restful evenings spent talking by the camp fire. Playing Pit one night so loud that the neighboring camp came over to quiet down the kids that were keeping the rest of the campers within hearing range awake, only to find out it was the “grown ups” more than the kids. The table always had to have an “oil cloth” table cloth and fresh wild flowers. A fast food restaurant type napkin holder (so they wouldn’t blow away). Early in the morning listening to the squirrels getting into our “stuff” that we had neglected to put away the night before. And I could never forget to mention the camouflage parachute that I pulled out of the neighbor’s trash can one time (with permission). We used it for years after that to build “walls” around our camp site. Surprising how big a parachute is and how cozy and private your camp becomes. With the other side being a clothes line, with swim suits and towels hanging, always at the ready. I don’t think this blog has enough space to tell of all our wonderful special memories of camping. Except there might be a couple of our kids that didn’t think the bugs were such a wonderful experience, but so many other things made up for that. Would I like to go and sleep on the ground now? I think I just might.


Cooking - important--------------- More cooking


Yes, bikes sometimes---- Family Camp cooks- Me & Mom

Nap time

More food - Girl's Camp
Manti

The California Coast

Girl's Camp cooks

Girl's Camp - hand in candy jar

Now, this is the way to camp
Where there's smoke there's fire, right?